Honeypot, Thanks for the suggestion! We are going to be alone Saturday night and I am hoping that I can deftly steer the conversation around to my way of thinking! At this point I'd be happy with every other week.
I think what I have hated the most was not knowing when the next time would be - knowing it wasn't going to be too soon - it has always been when he decided - I had nothing to do with it and that really has bothered me.
You have always had good suggestions for me Honeypot and I appreciate it more than you can possibly know!