Go to the counselor. This is action. Action is energy, energy causes change. (Wow, that sounds like a chant from Dune.)
You hubby has already noticed. He will continue to notice and the stakes for him to continue ignoring your needs just got higher.
You are not being mean to hubby. Change can be very frightening, if nothing else, it is a least a pain to deal with, so expect some fallout.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
