I found a counselor today and made an appointment. My appointment is tomorrow at 3:00 PM.
Our oldest son visited tonight with his wife and they did not leave until 11:00 PM so I did not have the opportunity to tell my H that I was going to counseling before they arrived.
After they left I told him that I had made an appointment to see a counselor.
The first thing he said was he would not go with me and that C would not be helpful if he did not go. I did not argue the point with him.
He left the room then came back and ask me who the C was and what kind of C, etc. I told him that I would not have even told him about it if I didn't have to use our insurance. He said again that he would not go and I said, I did not ask you to go. I am going for me.
I could see he wasn't too happy about me going but I don't care. I am hoping to get some relief from the feelings sadness and hopelessness.