Hi Nitaf, I did go back and read more of your sitch. Has the lying issue been discussed lately for any reason? Or, have you been more consistent lately and it really has not been an issue?
Without knowing all the details, I am inclined to encourage you to build on these close and positive moments w/H. There may be a time to discuss the lying issue, but wouldn't more consistent "truth behavior" practiced on your part build a better new base with your H? And letting this behavior happen over weeks or months and let it speak for itself, without you pointing it out could go a long way in impressing him.
Let me know if I am missing an important piece here and I'll reconsider what I am offering you, OK?
Regarding your goodbyes, is there anything less intimate than a kiss (maybe somewhat playful?) that would be safe for you to offer? Just wondering....
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