A sore spot with H and I use to be that he felt I did not let him parent our son without correcting him(H). I stopped interferring, unless it is absolutely necessary and a detriment to S health. When is that ever likely?
Yesterday S and H were having a disagreemnt. I stayed out of it. When H left he called me and said, do you think I am being to hard on S? I said, cane we talk later because S is right here. He said, ok. I fell asleep. I text H this morning that I fell asleep and we will discuss S today.
It is so ironic the the 1 thing that pissed him off the most(jumping in when he tries to discipline S) he now wants advice on. He notices that I don't interfere so now he values my opinion because it is not being pushed on him.
