Hi nitaf, I have to say I think TC gave you some really good advice/info here...I also have to say that from my experience ml is a good thing....it helps build a bond, and strengthend the ones that are still there under the surface...of course, as the others have said, every sitch is different, the thing to do is to "try it" and observe the results....... Looks to me like you are starting to get a lot of VERY positive results!!!! Deb
