PIB, the boundaries help me to stay focused, if nothing else. All though I have some weepy days, for the most part I am stronger now. I sometimes worry that boundaries have made things move slower.
I was so dead set on not having him hanging around anytime that he wanted, that I stopped him from coming and going as he pleased. I sometimes wish he were still in and out all of hte time. I miss him being there washing clothes and eating dinner. I guess it is a double edged sword. But our communication is 100% better and the respect is increasing big time.
