On my way to the bagel store this morning, I was pondering a lot of what was written here (this thread and others) about improving self and working on the R. Then I thought, "crap, how can anyone with young children have any chance of working on things when all hell could break loose at any moment because of them?" LOL Silly me, perhaps, but it's a real concern in my case. I have a D6 and a D2. The D2 is a handful when she gets pissy, and the D6 can be defiant and stubborn.
So, Schnarch or others... are there any decent books/articles on how children add to the mix of a SSM, a HD-LD R, and all of the fun stuff that goes into taking care of children while still trying to work out a marriage where outside influences could be HUGE??
