I feel that I am not successful in my DB effort. However, I am at least strong enough to face my S. I slept well last night. I removed all of the pictures with my W. Lettie told me that will help me to get over this crisis.
Your W is under pressure from her family to reconcile. But she may blame you for that. I have stopped asking my W's family to give her advice. She saw as "controlled" from me.
