Been lurking round your thread in the past couple of weeks, since you were kind enough to post on mine once (I think!).
Congratulations (if that's the right word) on completion of your RCIA journey. As a former lapsed Catholic, my re-discovery of my Catholic faith preceded my tribulations at the hands of WAW by a couple of years. I know I wouldn't have been able to make it this far without my faith, and particularly without the church's unbending support of family and the institution of marriage. And we're not even married in the church: W is Jewish. But every time I get ready to throw in the towel, the Holy Spirit sends me the fortitude and insight to keep fighting for what's right.
