LIVE-IN WAW IX

[TripleJ]

I know. I know. Must have been the anticipated travel route of going through Buffalo that got your feathers in a ruffle. The smell of chicken wings and taste of Genesee screamers is enough to send anyone to the luny bin!

Believe me, I don't think I would have held it together knowing that I had to spend a good half hour fighting those NY thruway toll booths.

Glad to see you made it out though and had a great trip.

You know Merrick, i can relate to where you were at. So much tongue biting, so much validating, so much effort, with only hostility and negativity in return. Ugh. It builds up and then explodes all at once. Happened to me. Happened to you. And it will happen to someone else.

Its hard to avoid these things, especially when it is us who sees that "you know, the problem is not me here".
But they are done none the less.

I am happy to see that you have not carried this around with you. Space is what she wants, space is what she gets. Little does she know that you giving her space benefits you, cause it gives you time to work on the things you need to do, concentrate on the things that are really important (the kids and you).

So, you blew a gasket. Step back, assess, replace the gasket and continue on in your DB journey pal. You know the way!

Triple J