Merrick,

Thanks for the reply. I think my W put money on a place today and she started her new job today. It will be a relief when she moves. I worry about my children and I am worried she will try to take them. I am afraid that I will have to do some legal stuff but I don't want it to be so bad that we cannot work things out later (not that it isn't that bad right now). I think you have something about their heads spinning. Did anyone notice if our Ws watched the Exersist just before they dropped the bomb? Maybe that is the reason they are so crazy. Just a thought.

I will go back and read your post again. I have a feeling that my W is up to something but I don't know what. She keeps saying she wants to be fair but I don't believe her. I think I am also going to give her the rope and let her do the work. Right now she is hooked up with this young guy whose behavior in my house has been less than appropriate. In fact it has been downright dangerous. I also think he has a record. I am keeping good notes and my attorney knows the what is going on. I also think staying is putting me further from us working things out, but I have learned that no matter what I do, it doesn't matter. Thanks again.

Dig