The similarities in our sitches scare me. My H and I have also separated more than once and H had a ONS during the last and longest separation. Psycho OW also called months after we got back together.
Sometimes I think we are married to the same person.
My H has also been revealing all kinds of things lately and one was how many people he has been with and it was way more than he told me when we first started dating. I didn't understand why he felt that he had to lie but then he told me that he was ashamed of how many people he has been with and thought I wouldn't give him the time of day if I knew the truth. I think he was expecting me to be judgmental because I have never been with anyone except H.
I just wanted to let you know that I enjoy reading your thread. I can relate to everything that is going on with you and makes me feel like everything I am going through is normal.
MF...wow, everything you said is soooo right on the money. H's straying was essentially a ONS (1 1/2 times, according to him...with him leaving in the middle of the second encounter. I'm suspicious that may have been when he came looking for me), although it happend during sep #1.
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Sometimes I think we are married to the same person.
LOL!
I have also only been with my H. Didn't plan it that way, although I am perfectly fine with how it turned out. He's mentioned before that he feels bad for me that I didn't get to experience other people. (More chances for picking up something or getting pregnant? No thank you!) But I don't feel like I've lost out on anything.
Glad to hear you enjoy reading it...I just don't post as much anymore becauase my sitch got kind of boring. In a good way!
My H and I have also separated more than once and H had a ONS during the last and longest separation. Psycho OW also called months after we got back together.
In a good way!