Hi Nevanna - I'm so comforted reading your musings
Quote: I actually understand the ILBNILY line now....I've actually had my moments. It's a part of the healing cycle, I've noticed. I get angry, then I get depressed, then I get that numb ILBNILY feeling. It's been part of the healing process. But I realize that that feeling, along with the others, will pass. I realize you need to do loving activities to feel loving towards your spouse. So of course I don't feel all lovey dovey when we're, say, doing chores or paying bills.
This struck a chord. I'm quietly panicking about not having the 'in love' feeling, or even 'gleeful' that Sage refers to, but of course what you say makes sense. This is healing time, not miracle time
