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[Mak_]

So is there a particular way that works better with your W?

If I’m upset I get very quiet and W will pry until she gets an answer.

Let her deal with it in her own time. If you get overly pushy about it she will just get angry back - you know this.

You’re right about this, I cannot force the disconnect. But I am upset because I don’t believe that W is being 100% honest with me. For example, W told me that there would be no more contact with OM, he would not call her and she would not call him. One morning I went to get some coffee and pastries for us, I drove about half a block and realized that I had left my wallet at home. I went back home and went in through the back door. As I was looking for my wallet, I noticed W was upstairs on the phone with OM. I could hear the convo through the heating vents. W told OM to keep a low profile on the phone calls, and that she would call him whenever she could. I could probably look at the next phone bill and confront W with it, but I don’t think it would do any good.

MakDaddy