Nevanna- I read it all, and I want to pat you on the back for keeping your patience. I am realizing that the feelings about and tolerance of mentions, etc of OW goes in cycles for me. I am in the middle of a down cycle, where I wish that ex-OW would fall off the face of the earth, or at least move to some other town so I didn't have to hear my H mention that he saw her, or that someone told him she is buying a house for his ex-best friend (now her boyfriend). I have lost it a bit a couple of times, and knowing how hard it is not to, I want to give you a HUGE HUG for being so patient with your H.
I only have a few more months of stupidness to go through, because H and I will be moving to Arkansas, and then we won't run into ex-OW all the time. THANK GOODNESS!
Hang in there, Nev, you're not alone. Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.