That's good that you are thinking about the A less. It might help you to quit trying to rehash stuff and seek answers from him altogether. It sounds like you have been testing him, which I know is very tempting to do, but I think in the long run, it only makes you feel worse. Because (at least in my head) it then becomes, "well, what did he mean by that ?" And, "one day he said this, but now he's saying that..." etc., etc., etc. You are only doing yourself and the R a disservice. I read recently that R talks are generally bad for the r. Not sure exactly why. guess I need to read that one again. ha ha
How are you coming along with finding other things to do for yourself? I can relate to the he's going out anxiety as you know. I need to drop that altogether too!
