So I sent H another ILY text. (He always liked that kind of thing.) H called me a few minutes later--said he had just woken up.
We talked some. He said he was going to go work on his car. I asked if he was still planning on talking with xrm tonight, and he said he was. I then said I was going to go to the gym on my own then, since he was going to be too busy to go with me.
I finally just asked him what the messages were from xrm. Said my curiosity was getting to me, but that he didn't have to tell me. He said that she was inviting him to go to some club with her friends that night. Then the next one was to tell him she wasn't going after all.
So nothing major. Nothing really out of line.
H did tell me about another dream. Said in the dream, he became close with this whole family. But then the mom started really hitting on him--really obviously flirting with him. And, in the dream, she asked him to come over for "something important" on a day when her husband and kid weren't going to be home. That he could tell she was setting it up for some kind of liason. He said the dream made him very uncomfortable.
So that's two dreams in one day that, if I'm not reading too much into them, in some manner relate to our sitch. He must have a lot on his mind.