Quote: It sounds like you're doing all you can to help foster a good impression of your H with your parents.
As far as I'm concerned, I don't really give a hoot what they think about my sitch. It kind of irritates me that they don't think I'm smart enough to handle things appropriately. I have noticed that the more I talk nicely about H, the less hostile they seem to get.
Personally, I would just ignore the whole thing, and just not care what they think. But it really, really upsets my H--at least, with my dad anyway. (He's fed up with my mom, and I can't blame him.)
Although he did make some crack last night about when I do get pregnant--will my mom ask "Whose is it?" or "Is it [H]'s?" So I can tell it's a sore spot with him. This is kind of a problem since H has said in the past I don't stick up for him (and really been hurt by it), so I want him to know that I do defend him.
Quote: I wonder if xrm realizes that the more psycho she acts, the more she pushes to two of you together - you two are defending your couple space against The Malevolent XRM!!!
LOL! This made me laugh!! The funny part of it is, is how truly nuts the woman is. She honestly thinks that she and H were a couple. Now, I can understand why she might have thought he was interested or wanted to date her or something like that. But the jump to them actually having had a romantic relationship is too much. But, honestly, I've been around enough to know that a lot of what she's said to H couldn't possibly have happened. (He was with me, or with his family, or the facts always change, that sort of thing.)
Kind of goes to show you how pursuing/pressuring don't work.
Quote: And the wax thing was so cute!
BIL2 went over to the floor later, and said, "It looks so shiny!"
The funny part of it is, is how truly nuts the woman is. She honestly thinks that she and H were a couple. Now, I can understand why she might have thought he was interested or wanted to date her or something like that. But the jump to them actually having had a romantic relationship is too much. But, honestly, I've been around enough to know that a lot of what she's said to H couldn't possibly have happened. (He was with me, or with his family, or the facts always change, that sort of thing.) 
