Nevanna- It sounds like you're doing all you can to help foster a good impression of your H with your parents - honestly, mine have said some completely moronic and cruel things about H and my relationship with him. The more he is around, the more my mom seems to accept him, and since my dad is pretty distant from our whole family, I am not outrageously worried about that. My uncle saying what he did was a big deal, because he actually was close to my H.
I wonder if xrm realizes that the more psycho she acts, the more she pushes to two of you together - you two are defending your couple space against The Malevolent XRM!!! I think she is kind of absurd with her jealousy and possessiveness.
In our case, one my H's former friends who is now in a serious relationship with one of H's former OW's is the one who won't leave us alone. It is a pain, especially when you are putting the past behind you and trying to move forward together. I have to say again that I LOVE reading your posts, because it's great to see day-to-day progress of your R and M.
And the wax thing was so cute! Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.