Well, I am sure they know we are no longer seperated. They've seen us together once since the whole mess, and we were acting pretty affectionate and all. I have also made sure to talk about him, like I would normally, around them. I'm hoping they'll get the hint.
Right after the whole explosion, when H and I first started talking again, I remember sitting on the couch with my mom, and telling her I knew we both contributed--and she kept trying to defend me, and tell me that it was all his fault. Now, I know their my parents, but I'm only human, and of course I contributed.
I think my mistake, as you said, was during the first sep, I went and spent the night at their house one time. It was when H had hit the point where he was calling me every 20 minutes, and I refused to take the calls. (Long story. Hadn't found DB yet.) I certainly didn't tell them everything, but I told my mom enough that she's been hesitant about him every since.
The worst part is, I went there and told my mom on the advice of a C. Worst decision I ever made. It's caused nothing but problems.
Then, this time, H actually called my parents and told them they had to come help me move all of my stuff out because we were getting a D. My dad has pretty much been mad at him ever since. My mom, after we moved my stuff out of the apartment, had the gall to tell me that she "wasn't surprised" and had "seen this coming"--that it was better to "cut the losses" and get on with life. (Not the most comforting thing to hear!!)
I get the impression that my H would like to repair things with my dad, at least. His dad is a deadbeat--my dad was the closest he ever really had. And I know it really hurts him.
Worst decision I ever made. It's caused nothing but problems. 
