Regarding CN's post-coital depression: I know where she is coming from. Many times, whether it's ML or MB, I find myself focussing on the event, and putting all my energy into it. Perhaps I'd been thinking about it for hours or days beforehand. Then the monent comes, and that thing which was occupying my mind, that hot anticipation comes to a screeching halt. All other obligations come flooding back in. I often feel a good deal of anxiety. I know that in the past I have been less than willing to hug and hold my wife after ML, and I regret that now. I came here because my W and I have had pretty much no LM for 4 years. I'm probably not very HD, but I'm frustrated with the currently ND situation. Paul
