Glad to see you here...well sort of, glad you are wanting to do something to improve your marriage anyway :-)
I would highly recommend that you read SSM as well, especially since you are the LD person wanting to make a change. This book gives you a great insight to how your husband is most likely feeling...and it will also connect with many of the ways you feel I have no doubt. There are parts of that book that will seem to have been written specifically for you, no matter which side of the fence you sit on.
FYI, I used to be LD and have become the HD in my current marriage. I made a decision to make the change from LD to HD, so it can be done. Just wanted you to know that :-)
