Well, I'm sorta new here too, so take my comments for whatever they're worth. "Abnormal" or not (in fact, forget about that), you're certainly not alone, as you'll soon find out reading these boards. That's once or twice a year more than my LDW, and the fact that you're here means you obviously want to do something about it, which is a GREAT first step, and more than some HD spouses can say about their LD spouses.
Forget about normal or abnormal. If the difference between your level of desire and your H's is causing a problem, then it's something you both need to deal with. I'm just finishing Michele's book The Sex Starved Marriage and I would HIGHLY recommend it, for starters.
