I've been meaning to ask you this ?, but I don't want to put the crazymaker light on. If you would rather put all this in the past and not answer my ?'s that is fine.
In regards to your H and his OW, how did they meet? Did they always work together? I remember something about her moving, was it to be close to H, to work with H? Did she divorce her H to be with yours? Does she have an apt or a house with a mortgage?
I only bring this up becuz I wonder if the reason that your H isn't OW free is becuz he somehow feels responsible or beholden for getting her to where she is now and then "abandoning" her.
Your H may not be financially responsible for OW, but that emotional responsibility may be why he still calls her.
I know that is part of my H's problem, that he feels responsible for leading OW astray.
He still has that stupid apt in Brazil with her name on the lease. He pays for it and she still lives there I think. She couldn't afford to live there on what she makes.
I don't know if it is possible to get out of the lease, it would take her cooperation and I am darn sure that won't be forthcoming.
Ticks me off becuz in Dec he paid OW all the rent $ through June..and now he is back in for another year.
All these are reasons why the BIble says not to commit adultery, becoming one flesh with a woman who is not your wife leads to all sorts of problems, duh.
