Quote: Do any of you see that I've made progress in my sitch? sometimes it's so hard to see from the inside....
OMG! Yes, Yes and YES!!
It is sounding like you've got your H thinking "big time" about his whole "situation"!!! I know its sporadic ... but that seems like how it all works. They "peak" out and then step back and "peak out" and step back. It's a process and takes time (unfortunately).
Not only is there movement in your situation, but the changes in you are phenomenol.(sp?) You MUST know that ...don't you?? Keep telling yourself that. You are one special person and quite obviously getting better every day!!