Thanks Ellie, it helps to know someone else has seen this. It just caught me so off guard. I have NEVER given him ANY reason to think I would cheat on him....Never looked at anyone else....although I did tell him recently, cant remember where we were, that he was the best looking guy there and that I knew because I'd checked them all out....but he had to know that was nothing serious.
If I wanted to be with one of those other guys I could be, and H has to know that, so it has to be obvious that he is the one I want to be with, at least I would think so....I am still just amazed that it would even come up.
It is so good to know someone else has some experience with this...and boy I hope it is when they are starting to come back. I just can't believe that he would talk about all the things he wants to do "at home" and be planning to leave, and he KNOWS that I have no intention of living the rest of my life with him seeing OW, so.....
