Dear Totally (and fogive me Deb for my hostage taking)

I have gone back and spent some time reading your old thread, but I am not all the way done yet.

You have given very wise advice to Deb and I see how you have grown since the time your thread first started. If you ever get the chance I would apprecite any input you could give to my sitch.
Here is the link, I think
http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Board=UBB40&Number=735276&page=0&view=collapsed&sb=5&o=&fpart=4

thanks,
Pam