Hi Honeypot! you always cheer me up, frankly. I've been thinking since you posted, that it was kind of weird, but when I was "hotter" a while back, I was in a better mood because I was having fun.....although it became obvious that I had to find a balance, because H actually told me things like "I like sex but not 24/7" and "you're making something that should be wonderful and fun into another chore " which was certainly not good to hear, BUT on the other hand, I know when I first started dbing H thought it was all a come on to get him back, etc....that the interest in sex was just an act....and that I didn't really want him, I just didn't want a D. I honestly don't think he believes those things anymore...

Frankly, there have been times when I was frustrated and disappointed from H's lack of response, but that helped me understand how frustrated he must have been sometimes over the years.....

ummmmmmm.....maybe my frame of mind is improving, because just thinking about it is making red hot momma peek her head out again, making me want to go home and get naked and just snuggle up in his strong warm arms and be happy. he really is a sexy guy. maybe on some level he senses that and that's what he was responding to? I don't know.....sigh.....hope he's in the mood for just snuggling at least.

been around awhile!