Questions, questions, questions! So should I apologize for being so clingy this morning, or just let it go??????
I'm kind of leaning towards just letting it go so as not to draw anymore attention to it....
Do you all think, besides not initiating anything right now, that I shouldnt be doing expressions of affection (cards, etc)? I havent done much since before vacation, although I did stick a scratch paper note in his lunch monday that said "ILY, thinking of you, hope you have a good day"....that's the 1st I've done since before vacation.....I hadnt done anything for quite sometime then, and then kind of started back up when he came home and gave me the line about it being all over and I was an incredible person, and thanks for never giving up, and I was the one he loved, he'd come to realize, and he couldnt imagine his life without me, we could have another 25 good years together, and blah blah blah blah.....kissed my hand, cried, held me for hours, told me he loved the love notes and emails, and please keep them on. Put on his wedding ring, told me no more phone calls, no more nothing with her....most of that lasted all of a week, except he still wears his ring, and the week of vacation alone was great other than his 3-hour going out.
Dang, now that I think about it, no wonder this mess makes me so nuts. I could kick his behind and strangle him. How can he change like this?????? I still don't think he was making all that up...... Has any one else see these huge back and forth swings? What do they mean and how long do they last?
