Hi TC....thanks, I believe you are absolutely right.....I do need to just back way off for a while, with saying I feel insecure...yup, that just brings it all up....and with sex, everything but being pleasant/friendly....I need to get in the habit of being gone more when H is gone....kind of hard w S around...........
I'm never sure how much to tell h....what do you think ( or any one else) do I say "I'm going such and such at such and such a time" or do I just leave if he's not home? do I say where I went or just not bring it up unless h does? this will be somewhat of a 180....I believe it gets to H some, as one time months ago S was in the backyard and I was in the shower when H came home, and he came looking for me and made the comment that "it seemed like no one was home" and seemed kind of "lost" when he said it.....
