Hi Deb, I have to make this short as I am at work. Perhaps you need to NOT tell H anything about how you are feeling about insecurities, etc..? This goes right along with not talking about his problems/OW. 'Cause if you "say" you are feeling insecure, it brings it ALL up again. Call a girlfriend and/or use this BB to vent your insecurities and anger about all of this. That is what I did ... and it does work! (At least it worked for me.) And then "turn around" and keep that smile plastered on your face for your H ! ...Well for the most part at least!
I am also wondering if this might be a time that you need to "pull back" and not be so "forward" with your H? If he doesn't initiate intimacy, etc.. stay away from it. Depending on what he really is feeling right now, he probably just feels "pressure" from any kind of "advances" he perceives you are making on him. Just my perception. Again you know your H best ....
