Hi Deb, I'm sorry I wasn't around last night. I'm glad you got to read my thread. I discovered that I wasn't able to get to it via how I entered it into my post to you a couple of days ago. (Sorry...I guess I don't know how to do that right.) Obviously you figured out how to get there though.
I'm not sure that there is a whole lot more info on that last page ... but my going "dim" did not turn out like most would think. I DID NOT ignore H. I DID ignore all of his "antics". Most would think going dim would be more or less not giving him much more than the time of day. That is NOT the case in my situation. That is why in one of my posts to you I mentioned how difficult it is to find the "balance" between separating yourself from H's problems, continuing to "make" yourself grow and then also still act loving/respectful to H. I will post more about this later .. IF you want.
Unfortunately I did not get back on-line until early this morning, right before work and don't have time to go into too much detail. Don't be "down" Deb! You are doing absolutely GREAT! Keep your PMA up, EVEN if you don't feel it, okay? Let everyone else (H?) SEE it ... it will be catchy. You will find that you will actually begin "feeling" the happy person that you are showing everyone on the outside. You are one awesome individual .. don't forget that!
I will pull up your thread again tonight when I get home from work ... to see how you are doing.
