Hi TC....thanks for your posts! guess what....I didn't give the article to OW....but I did make a copy for me, it really is excellent. OW doesnt give a damn, frankly, and H knows this stuff....so I probably wouldnt have gained a thing other than personal retribution, which doesnt make any sense.
I like the article you posted, I'm going to copy it so I can have it to reread.....it makes a lot of sense, in many ways. when I combine it with the article I found at work yesterday, it helps me to begin to see my H's sitch (and mine) more clearly....interesting how these seem to come together at the appropriate time. I also had what I think is called a "rhema sign" from a bible reading yesterday....I don't know, I am kind of from the school that believes there's "no such thing as coincidence" but it fascinates me as to the timing of things. I think it was Sage who had a thread here months ago titled "when the student is ready the teacher appears" and that has stuck with me because I thought-and continue to think-it was so apt.
I'm kind of in a weird place this morning, and probably should have posted about that before I read your posts....as it really feeds in to my belief that things become clearer when the time is right.
I do want to read some of your thread. I learn so much from the wise folks who have traveled this road before me.
