Ok, need to post some positives....hmmmm, kind of hard after the weekend, but here goes:
from yesterday: -H was patient and uncomplaining about my family, bless his heart (now he could have called OW to complain to her, but I cant do anything about that) -H initiated ml, and was EAGER!!!! -H continues to make reference to the future as it pertains to "us"....
Today: -H initiated a peck on the cheek and whispered ILY at work where he could have been seen/heard (gasp!) -H has emailed me a couple of times conversationally today