I've been working on going out a little and coming home a while after H does....Saturday he'd been home from "work" about an hour before I got home, and seemed a little "distressed" that I was gone, even though S was with me and we'd gone to the grocery store....I'm still somewhat cautious about being gone a lot because one of his complaints was that I was never around/interested in him...but I think just a touch does him good. I told him I'd thought we'd be home before him or I'd have left a note....that's kind of a touchy issue because I've told him it helps me feel better when he leaves me a note or lets me know when he's gone, and he has been pretty good about it, so I try to reciprocate for the most part..... I just had a weird thought that I can even tell on his notes when he's lying to me, thinking specifically of valentines, the day before he left a note that he was going shopping and went to OW's, I was so suspicious just somehow from the way his handwriting was, and I was right.
