I got a weird question for you...have you ever considered letting your H read some of the stuff on the BB?? My H is incredibly interested (in a good way), and I was thinking of printing off some stuff from the various WAS threads for him. I wouldn't have even thought seriously about it, but he's said a few times that he didn't know why he did what he did or what motivated or how to prevent himself from getting all confused again. He even insisted on watching an episode of 7th Heaven (which he hates) since someone on there sounded like him, and he was looking for some insight.
I've suggested DR, but he says it's too long for him to read, and that he would lose interest. (Very true.)