I read something interesting in a magazine the other week.
It was in reply to a wife who was tired all the time and the response was: If you had all the sleep that you ever desired, would you want sex with him often?
If the answer is yes, then the sleep issue needs addressing.
If the answer is still no, then it goes deeper than sleep.
I thought this was one of the easiest and most understandable ways to point out the the sleep stuff is an excuse. The real problem is that the other partner doesn't want sex and they don't want to have to work through the WHY'S of that at the moment--they just want to go to sleep.
Anyway, I thought that was an interesting little paragraph in that article.
