From a woman's perspective I can tell you that I really was tired a lot of the time. I think this also came from being on the BC shot. That thing messed me up for a long time. It also came from the fact that I just didn't care. I didn't care for a lot of different reasons. I think I held grudges for too long. I was also under the very wrong assumption that it was okay for me to do this. It took my husband leaving for me to wake up. I would give anything to be able to be with him intimately. Or just be with him period. I hope you guys don't mind a woman's perspective on this.