Way to go Mike. She initiated for a change and was willing to try. Gotta give her credit for stepping up tp the plate for once. There is a definate change from mercy sex to willingness. I applaud your efforts to reach your wife and explain your needs to her, but I really applaud her for reaching out of her comfort zone which is very difficult for LD folks to do.
Don't push her too hard too fast as that may backfire. You know if you are pushing too hard and as much as you want to push further, give her time and room to find comfort in her sexuality and sensuousness.
JoJo - just a voyeur (by reading this board) and have been for too dammed long *sigh*
She initiated for a change and was willing to try. Gotta give her credit for stepping up tp the plate for once. There is a definate change from mercy sex to willingness. I applaud your efforts to reach your wife and explain your needs to her, but I really applaud her for reaching out of her comfort zone which is very difficult for LD folks to do. 
