Mike: I came up with a list that is very similar to yours. I started to share it with my W, but it was during our argument last week, and I don't think she heard much past the "ML a minimum of once per week."
And my answer is, No, it is not too much to ask. And yes, this is just basic intimacy...nothing out of the ordinary here, nothing that would happen during the last 30 minutes of "9 1/2 Weeks."
The problem is, at least with my W, it seems as if it IS too much to ask.
