We/I (in fact I am no longer sure) have had the problem of my partner being a LDH for the last 4 years. This year upto now we have ml 3 x's. In the last 12 week I have lost my father, but that did not affect me I wanted my other half to ml me more than anything, just needed that closeness that you can only share with them. Anyway it didnt happen, about 4 weeks ago we had a big talk about IT, but he went off on one major. So I left him alone, its just not worth it. Also I find myself actually not 'fanceying' him anymore, I find the fact that he his so ld a real turn off, so basically I have not wanted to ml for the last 4 weeks, which is not me. In fact a funny thing happened the other night, we were having a Burger King, which due to diets is a real treat, to which I said to him "mmmmm better than" said in fun no having a go or anything, he replied "I would know its been so long".....God you just cant win can you