thanks for responding Phoniex, I have read and re-read the db book and I have listened and relistened to the tapes "Keeping Love Alive" The ex did tell the counselor that he likes things the way they are so I guess that's how I'm going to look at it and just go with the flow. Though, now our d doesn't want to let her dad out of his sight. I guess she thinks time without her around means time with the GF. Boy, In never thought I would use "GF" in my stitch! Ex told d that he is going to date, but that he has been married once and he doesn't want to get married again, so she is happy that daddy will never remarry. I don't think he should have told her that--nobody can predict the future. I guess I will play it my ear and see if he invites me anywhere. Maybe I will have to say no to a few inviations.
