Hi everyone, Sorry I haven't posted in a while. I really have a situation now. things were great, the three of us were doing things as a family, we are all going to Maryland for d's competition next week. and this past Sat. caught ex in a lie. He told d that he was going out with the guys (okay thts good protecting her) and calls and asks if she could stay at my place this sat because some guy at work was out sick for 2 weeks and now he is back, so the guys are all going out to celebrate. I pick her up and he asks me to stop by in the evening to take the dog out. So we did, and the answering machine had a message so d play it and it was a woman wanting to know where the ex was because he was a half hour late. when I heard that I think I stopped breathing. I feel like a complete fool, I've been going places with him because I thought we were working things out, but he only kept me around because of our daughter!! D and I were up till 1 a.m talking, she was so upset that the dad had lied to her and of course I told her because he didn't want her to get hurt. the next day, I pretended that I didn't hear the message and asked him to get our d and my bikes down from the garage because d and I were going on a bike ride--now I didn't ask him and when we get there, her bike and his bike are on his bike rack and he is all ready to go!! what is up with that, you went out with another woman last night, now you want to bike with the ex and she didn't even invite you!!!! all through the ride d and I were looking at each other like what is he doing??? when we got back home, he invited me to stay so that we could go to the fireworks! I said no, but I wasn't nasty. then yesterday I called him to tell him that he shouldn't lie to our d, she is 13 and she now started pieceing things together and knows that he is dating someone. He started to get mad, but I calmed him down I was just telling him what was going on with his d and he then said that he wanted to move on, so I asked him then why did you ask me to the fireworks and he said that yeah he probably shouldn't have done that--now what do I do--he wants to move on!!! Right now, I really can't see myself sitting through another b-bay with both sides and everyone telling me, ask him out to dinner, so the two of you can spend time together. but I don't know if I should tell him that since he wants to move on then maybe its time for the families to move on as well--help, I don't want to mess this up, but I have been acting as if and now he wants to move on.
