Quote: Now I am in two minds about this progress because... She does not like to be naked in my company (she always has her nighty on during sex). She told me she would never ever give me a bj or touch me intimately. Her instinctive reaction to my touch is rejection. It took a one hour heated argument to get her to display some real passion.
I might not be the best person to give advice on these problems since getting my H to perform specific acts once he is in the mood has never been a problem. Has your W ever told you why she has such an aversion to giving head or exposing her body? I suppose according to PM you should not worry about why and just keep requesting that she do it. Eventually when you've become more successful in terms of frequency and overall passion and sexual communication, you could modify the examples given in PM to fit your situation. For instance, you could tell your W that you know a nice, attractive American woman who is obsessed with British garden writing and loves to give head. You could say "I wonder what the penalty would be if one were caught in an act of public indecency on the grounds of Sissinghurst?
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
