HP and Journey, We HD guys love you two to inspire us to work harder.
I would love it if my spouse was responsive to touches, caresses, suggestive whispers, a blatent fondle in the X-rated zones, etc. However after numerous sharp elbows in the ribs and sharp verbal "Don't do that's" one gets the message that behavior is verboten.
Last year I tried an experiment where I didn't approach her for a hug and waited to see when she would hug me and went 6 weeks without a hug, much less sex.
So, not that it's not hard, but patience and keep rewarding him for good behavior will move things forward.
Scott
"Satisfaction is not guaranteed." Rule #19 Ferengi "Rules of Acquistition"