Wildman, I did NOT mean to imply that desire is a non-issue for the fellas. At all.
I was just saying that I don't think that any HD man would make his wife becoming sexually aggressive as big of an issue as an HD would. Or that it would matter to him as much. After all, he has been socialized to be the aggressor and the thought of a shy and demure wife is basically okay with him. (note I said "okay" and not preferable)
I'm sorry but a shy and demure man does nothing for me. It is something that I am having a very hard time coming to grips with.
