NOP, I don't think I have changed all that much either. It has stayed steady from what I told him would be my ideal and what truly is my ideal.
Listen, I had a question for you but I am too lazy to start a new thread (apologies all around, Superman).
Have you found that the way your wife shows desire towards you has changed and, if so, in what ways specifically?
For instance: Can you give me an example of how Mrs. Nop used to initiate vs. how she does it now?
I am still trying to wrap my mind around what is a reasonable amount of progress and when I should call it a day. I don't want to push to the extent that I freakin ruin everything; on the other hand, I don't want to give up too easily. It is a fine line, as you know.