wb: Although it is less than 2 days I have very little discomfort. I am saving my first ej until Friday and I desperately hope there is no kick in the balls pain. That would put a real dampener on my PM project for sure. AtlD: we have 3 children but having the third was a hard journey including two miscarriages. W was desperate for a third baby. Once she had him, it was as if Mother Nature just switched off her reproductive desires. It has taken me 11 years to get around to getting the snip although my attitude was that it just wasn’t worth it for 3 times per year mercy sex. I have a different attitude now though and am looking forward to a future of 3 times per month (I wish ). SD