OK, OK. Well, I'll tell you what I hadn't thought of doing, which was to powerwash my house. Thanks, Totally (and thanks for being here & SO good to see you!). (Thank you loyal NSN and Sun and Wonder for the big hugs. I love hugs.) Totally, you do have a charming way of making it sound like a worthwhile activity. Who'd have thunk it? It wasn't on my list of prescribed activities, to be sure. As for what I am doing, I'm exercising, getting enough sleep, trying to stay in the present moment, talking to and spending time with friends, doing the exercises in the The Journey From Heartbreak to Connection book, which I'm finding really helpful. Obviously I have LOTS of grief (& fear, & anger) to work through, with all these losses of the past year. But I'm trying to sit with uncomfortable feelings and accept them, rather than run from them. I'm also trying to be open to accepting invitations to do new things with new people. Tonight I'm going to another party where I only know two people, but it sounds like it could be fun. It's also a clothes swap, and we drink wine and eat homemade peach pie. Nothin' wrong with that!